The Object

Six lessons on what desire is actually after — the Symposium, Freud's conditions of love, transference, and closeness produced to order.

A course on the thought of The Machinery of Desire.

Psychology

What you will learn

  • Describe the setting and rules of the Symposium and why the speeches are ordered as they are.
  • State Aristophanes' account of love and identify what it explains that a simple attraction story cannot.
  • Reconstruct the ascent in order and state what love is 'of' at each stage.
  • Explain the objection that the ladder discards the person it began with, and how a defender might answer it.
  • Explain the Silenus image and what Alcibiades claims is inside Socrates.
  • State what Lacan takes from the scene, and why Socrates' denial rather than Alcibiades' declaration is the load-bearing moment.
  • State the four conditions Freud describes in the special type of object-choice.
  • Explain what the phenomenon of the contented triangle shows about where the desire is located.

Course outline

  1. The Drinking Party — Seven men agree to take turns praising love, and the fourth speaker produces the story every subsequent theory has had to answer.
  2. Diotima's Ladder — Socrates reports being taught that the beloved is a rung — and the argument works, which is the problem.
  3. The Thing Inside the Statue — Alcibiades arrives too drunk to follow the rules, announces what he loves Socrates for — and Socrates denies having it.
  4. The Conditions — Freud finds that whom a person can want is governed by conditions they did not choose and cannot see — and that one of them requires a rival.
  5. Produced by the Situation — Freud's patients kept falling in love with him. His conclusion — that it was the arrangement and not the man — is the most consequential thing in this course.
  6. Made to Order — The experiment that produced closeness between strangers on demand — and the three things it found did not matter at all.

Works read in this course

  • Symposium (c. 385 BCE) — Plato's dialogue in which seven men at a drinking party each give a speech in praise of love.
  • Contributions to the Psychology of Love (1910-18) — Freud's three papers on the conditions governing whom a person can want.
  • Observations on Transference-Love (1915) — Freud on patients falling in love with their analysts, and what produces it.

Terms introduced

transference, object a, sublimation, self-disclosure

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